Hi!
I’m new into this area and I have some problems with aggression and found this is the way I should use instead of aggressiveness!
Because of aggressiveness, a relationship has been broken down because of my problem. I’ve been reading lots on it and it seems a good things to tell clearly what I fell and what right I have in a calm and clearly way.
I thinks this problem with my aggressiveness (passive sometimes) primarily came from my disabilities as hearing impaired.
The problem I’ve been came into is that almost impossible conversation with assertiveness vs. assertiveness people. Because of that problem it seems hard to get some agreement with each other when they speak freely about they feeling and the other one want to express about that feeling and so on. It seems getting into a loop where no one will “win” this situation. Ive been always saying to assertiveness people like this “Yes i know you feeling and problem but you need to know also the consequences about begin assertive that you actually have to hold you statement and listen what i or other have to say than just say what you want and then dont bother about it, isnt fair to anyone of us when you speak freely and don’t care about to hear others opinion.” So far ive done this statement (correct if it wrong or right statement) al people that claim they are assertiveness say kind of “i have right to say what i want” “i have right not to care” “i have right to change my mind”. Anyone know how to deal this kind of problem would be great to solve almost al kind communication failure with assertiveness vs. assertiveness…
Well my english isnt great. I can explain better if there are statement that confused and i do my best to try again!
